Imagining the Scale of Disaster… with a Heart Broken Open

Last Wednesday I was watching the weather. There were two storms coming, one big one on Wednesday and then the hurricane predicted to hit Thursday night. I was supposed to have a follow-up colonoscopy on Friday the 27th so I was watching closely because I didn't want...

Apologies & Feedback

There are so many perceptions of reality orbiting through existence, sometimes clashing, sometimes running parallel, sometimes uniting for collaboration and care. And most of the time, inside my own little brain (and likely in the brains of others), I think that how I...

COVID Changed things Professionally

I used to travel a lot for work and professional development, frequently participating in gatherings of 15 - 6,000 people. Sometimes as a facilitator, other times a participant, always as a learner. And then COVID. I still interact regularly with groups. Digitally. We...
Noticing Culture (and Changing it?)

Noticing Culture (and Changing it?)

I'm fascinated by culture. How culture is created, how cultures shape our every thought and action, how similar or different cultures can be. In the journey to grow a more loving and just society, culture is an essential part of strategies for lasting change. If...

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Noticing My HeartAche

Noticing My HeartAche

Moments when my heart hurts or feels tension I'm frequently noticing the ache my heart is feeling as I navigate this moment in life. I use moment in a stretched sense. Not a polaroid moment, but a stream of experiences that encapsulate a sense of now, this time, this...

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What does it look like for a nation to grieve together?

What does it look like for a nation to grieve together?

This question was offered to me by Valarie Kaur in her book See No Stranger: A memoir and Manifesto of Revolutionary Love. I'm reflecting on this question often, as we explore reparations and how to repair the damage done historically and present day, as we call for...

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What is Influencing Your Experience of Life Right Now?

What is Influencing Your Experience of Life Right Now?

https://youtu.be/FnKF3xU3D24 This animation was created in May during the COVID-19 Stay Home Stay Safe order as a way to make visual the reality that we are each having our own pandemic experience. It evolved from a graphic I created to try and make sense of the many...

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New Times – But Will We Take Different Actions?

New Times – But Will We Take Different Actions?

I'm oscillating between intense heartache and slithers of hope. We have a rare opportunity to do things differently and yet I see so many leaders (and neighbors) making decisions that lead to the same harmful outcomes. White supremacy culture is tricky. It changes...

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New Times – But Will We Take Different Actions?

New Times – But Will We Take Different Actions?

I'm oscillating between intense heartache and slithers of hope. We have a rare opportunity to do things differently and yet I see so many leaders (and neighbors) making decisions that lead to the same harmful outcomes. White supremacy culture is tricky. It changes...

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We are each having our own pandemic experience

We are each having our own pandemic experience

Today the state of North Carolina enters into its first phase of what folks call opening back up. I'm getting hung up on the phrase opening back up. Who is opening? What is being opened? Who/what had a chance to close? Who stopped? Who had to keep going? What types of...

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Hold on… just a little while longer…

Hold on… just a little while longer…

I will find the words... for now my whole body is humming - a cross between numb and overflowing with feeling...I’m listening. Learning. Feeling. Reckoning. Loving. May we stay on the side of love. We are in such holy company.April 26, 2018 I wrote those words in a...

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A Bit on Grief (inside and outside of a pandemic)

A Bit on Grief (inside and outside of a pandemic)

This is a time of grief. I am feeling my own grief, the grief of people close to me, and the collective grief. Some folks are aware that they are feeling grief, others are having grief responses but don't know how to identify what is going on. I don't think there is...

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Social Media (and other media) Distancing

Social Media (and other media) Distancing

How are you practicing social media (and regular media) distancing? I continue to hear the principle from Racial Equity Institute — Maintain hope in the face of the brutal facts. It’s important for me to be informed about and facing the brutal facts. And then to...

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